First of all thankyou all for appriciating my previous blogs, hope this time also i may have your appriciation.
Actually i started writing blogs just to express and share some incedents of my life which are memorable and makes me laugh whenever i think of them.
So the name "first time in life", but todays blog is somewhat different, actually its not an incident but its a thought which comes in my mind through an incident.
Before starting my blog I also want to give A special thank to one of my friend who was waiting for my next blog and insist me to write. Thanks for your appriciation and your support.
I was also trying to write a blog from last few weeks but couldnt found anything,
<-------But today when I took bus for chandigarh from ambala bus stand. I was siting on the very first seat just behind the driver seat, one guy is sitting with me, he was listening to music and singing--"CHAMAK CHALLO".
After few minutes he got a call he cut it off, then after few minutes he again got a call, he cut it again and typed a message "I got the bus" , after 10 minutes he again got a call this time i read the name on the screen its "DAD", his father.
He picked up and said (in anger) "dady maine message kar to diya ki mujhe bus mil gai hai , fir bar bar call kun kar rahe ho........",
then he cut the call and busy in the music". Now after 10 minutes he dial a number, and start a conversation,
"or kesi ho?... "
"han maine bus li hai half an hour pehle,...fir sorry sorry ...yar bhul gaya phone karna,,, sorry yar......"
and he talked her around 20 minutes, and in this conversation he said "sorry" many times.
Pehle to mujhe kuch feel ni hoa than i realize that something wrong is happening , I mean DAD ka call aya to just message, and apne friend ko specially phone kara aur sorry bhi bola ki late phone kar rha hun ...----->
So In today's blog I was just sharing my views regarding our relation with our FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
Before starting my blog I wanted to ask you some question.......
Please read it and ask from urself, what you think of them......
replace---->"Friends -with- <boy friend,girl friend, best friend and other friends>"
"DID YOU EVER CALL YOUR BROHER OR SISTER TO ASK, HIM OR HER, WHY ARE YOU SAD? like we generally did incase of our friends?"
"DID YOU SHARE EVERY THING WITH any of your FAMILY MEMBERS , LIKE you genreally do with your friends.?"
"DID YOU EVER THINK HOW YOUR PARENTS OR OTHER FAMILY MEMBER FEEL WHEN YOU ANSWER THEM LOUDLY, OR USKE BAD SORRY BHI NI BOLNA, BUT AGAR KISI LADKI YA LADKE KE SATH BOLA TO USE 10 PHONE KAR KE UNNECESSARY REASONS AND APPOLAGIES...?"
"APNI SISTER KO YA APNE BHAI KO KABHI OUTING KE LIYE LE GAYE HO, THAT WE ALWAYS WISH TO OR ARE DOING WITH OUR FRIENDS..?"
"JITNA HUM APNE FRIENDS KI BATON KO SAMJTE HAIN , UTNA KABHI APNE GHAR MAIN APNE FAMILY MEMBERS KI BATON KO SAMJHA HAI?"
"JITNA DESPERATLY HUM APNE FRIENDS KI CALL KA WAIT KARTE HIAN UTNA KABHI APNE FAMILY MEMBERS KA KIA HAI?"
Actually, these are the questions which you asked to urself and got to know that something wrong is happening....
Ye jante hoye bhi ki "baki sab sapne hote hian , and apne to apne hote hain", we least bother to our family, than our friends. I mean jinke sath we spend more than 20 years (because after this hi ye sab hota hai), today we dont care what they actually feelings, we didnt give them right time, we talk hours and hours with our friends or some special one, but didnt have time to inform our parents that "yes, I reached here......". I mean what is happening with all of us, we try to resolve problems of other, but we least bother in solving the problems of our family members.
We share everyting , with our friends jise hum bade proud se bolte hain "BEST FRIEND"..but kabhi apne ghar main puri baat ni bolte. Apni family main SORRY bolne main hamari EGO hurt hoti hai, but friends main bina baat ke b sorry bolo to koi dikkat ni.
Please don't think that I am against your friendship but I am just saying don't forgot your family because of your friendship..because family members are the one, who always stand to hold you not your friends......
And if you are enjoying with your friends than you can enjoy with your family too...and if you are sharing with your friends than you can discuss with your family too..than you will see...LIFE IS VERY SIMPLE AND ENJOYABLE........
So signing off now......
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