FAMILY and FRIENDS

First of all thankyou all for appriciating my previous blogs, hope this time also i may have your appriciation.
Actually i started writing blogs just to express and share some incedents of my life which are memorable and makes me laugh whenever i think of them.
So the name "first time in life", but todays blog is somewhat different, actually its not an incident but its a thought which comes in my mind through an incident.
Before starting my blog I also want to give A  special thank to one of my friend who was waiting for my next blog and insist me to write. Thanks for your appriciation and your support. 
I was also trying to write a blog from last few weeks but couldnt found anything, 


<-------But today when I took bus for chandigarh from ambala bus stand. I was siting on the very first seat just behind the driver seat, one guy is sitting with me, he was listening to music and singing--"CHAMAK CHALLO".


After few minutes he got a call he cut it off, then after few minutes he again got a call, he cut it again and typed a message "I got the bus" , after 10 minutes he again got a call this time i read the name on the screen its  "DAD", his father.
He picked up and said (in anger) "dady maine message kar to diya ki mujhe bus mil gai hai , fir bar bar call kun kar rahe ho........", 
then he cut the call and busy in the music". Now after 10 minutes he dial a number, and start a conversation, 
"or kesi ho?... "
"han maine bus li hai half an hour pehle,...fir sorry sorry ...yar bhul gaya phone karna,,, sorry yar......"
and he talked her around 20 minutes, and in this conversation he said "sorry" many times.
Pehle to mujhe kuch feel ni hoa than i realize that something wrong is happening , I mean DAD ka call aya to just message, and apne friend ko specially phone kara aur sorry bhi bola ki late phone kar rha hun ...----->


So In today's blog I was just sharing my views regarding our relation with our FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
Before starting my blog I wanted to ask you some question.......
Please read it and ask from urself, what you think of them......


   replace---->"Friends -with- <boy friend,girl friend, best friend and other friends>"


"DID YOU EVER CALL YOUR BROHER OR SISTER TO ASK, HIM OR HER, WHY ARE YOU SAD? like we generally did incase of our friends?"


"DID YOU SHARE EVERY THING WITH any of your FAMILY MEMBERS , LIKE you genreally do with your friends.?"


"DID YOU EVER THINK HOW YOUR PARENTS OR OTHER FAMILY MEMBER FEEL WHEN YOU ANSWER THEM LOUDLY, OR USKE BAD SORRY BHI NI BOLNA, BUT AGAR KISI LADKI YA LADKE KE SATH BOLA TO USE 10 PHONE KAR KE UNNECESSARY REASONS AND APPOLAGIES...?"


"APNI SISTER KO YA APNE BHAI KO KABHI OUTING  KE LIYE LE GAYE HO, THAT WE ALWAYS WISH TO OR ARE DOING WITH OUR FRIENDS..?"


"JITNA HUM APNE FRIENDS KI BATON KO SAMJTE HAIN , UTNA KABHI APNE GHAR MAIN APNE FAMILY MEMBERS KI BATON KO SAMJHA HAI?"


"JITNA DESPERATLY HUM APNE FRIENDS KI CALL KA WAIT KARTE HIAN UTNA KABHI APNE FAMILY MEMBERS KA KIA HAI?"


NOTE:- its a request to all readers please dont take it personally, I am just sharing my views with you people, actually these are some points what i notice in my surroundings, from last few days. So just read and if you think that i am mention something wrong please stop reading and press "CTRL + W".

Actually, these are the questions which you asked to urself and got to know that something wrong is happening....


Ye jante hoye bhi ki "baki sab sapne hote hian , and apne to apne hote hain", we least bother to our family, than our friends. I mean jinke sath we spend more than 20 years (because after this hi ye sab hota hai), today we dont care what they actually feelings, we didnt give them right time, we talk hours and hours with our friends or some special one, but didnt have time to inform our parents that "yes, I reached here......". I mean what is happening with all of us, we try to resolve problems of other, but we least bother in solving the problems of our family members. 


We share everyting , with our friends  jise hum bade proud se bolte hain "BEST FRIEND"..but kabhi apne ghar main puri baat ni bolte. Apni family main SORRY bolne main hamari EGO hurt hoti hai, but friends main bina baat ke b sorry bolo to koi dikkat ni. 


Please don't think that I am against your friendship but I am just saying don't forgot your family because of your friendship..because family members are the one, who always stand to hold you not your friends...... 
And if you are enjoying with your friends than you can enjoy with your family too...and if you are sharing with your friends than you can discuss with your family too..than you will see...LIFE IS VERY SIMPLE AND ENJOYABLE........ 


So signing off now......
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Challenge...............

  hey Friends how are you all?

i m well...so as you know about this blogs that i am sharing some of unforgettable movements of my life..

it could be that below mention incidents are means nothing to you but they were some of good moments of my life or which feels me 

completly different with my normal daily rutine. Today 6 september, i woke up early for doing some important work...i have to go chandigarh for a work..(i'll tell u later about that), but i decided not to go cuz i was planing to move to Delhi for some interviews for which i was preparing from last few days, so i didnt bath and have food on my table, and didnt go to see whats is happening outside. But at 6 in eve I suddenly dropped Delhi plan and ready to go for Chandigarh.

So in todays blog i m sharing my first day experiance in a ______. So here i begin...

its 8:30 PM and I am  sitting on a comfortable chair in a AC room with two gentelman doing somethng on somthing, or in short i am in a place called

OFFICE. please fill the blank above with OFFICE

Its a pvt. ltd. company and its my first day here. and guess what! whats my job?, i am a Recruiter. strange...but yes i am here as a Jr. Technical Recruiter. Its interesting , from last two months i was searching for my job where some experianced person will recruit me, and now i m going to recruit peoples having experiance of 20+ years in technical fields, these firelds are completly from computers. And yes the more intersting part of this is that i have to recruit professionals of US. yes u guess write i am in "Night Shift" and its not my first day here its my first NIGHT...:D

...for more updates keep reading....actually i am saying this becuse its only 35 min passed and today is my first day so there is nothing to do any work i jus have to watch the guys and learn what actually i have to do......so i cant write everything becuse 8hrs and 25 min are still left..so lets see what happen, as i told you i didnt sleep since morning and i am here for my night shift, so lets see my saturation level of SLEEP...:D

ravi kumar dhawan is logged off....u can go for sleep...:D

ravi kumar dhawan is logged in .....now wake up and come back..:P.....Now Its 3:15 am and I am still awake, u should appriciate my performance.....:P

actually not exactlly, I was tying my level best to keep my eyes open but its close automatically , so i was moving towards washroom for washing my eyes , this will happen, If u didnt sleep from last 21 hrs and in this maximum time you spend in front of computer and two three hrs of travelling then it will happens. I dont wanna sleep in front of my seniors b'cuz it will creates a bad impression ....but guess what i was thinking all this in my dream..yes i slept..don know when..oh shit .. one of my senior to me politly..Ravi...i know its your first day and i may happens but if you are feeling sleepy than go outside for a walk of five min. I was feeling ambarased. but no worry. now slowly slowly time passes and the night over at 5:00 AM..haha..now there is one biggest hurdle and the riskiest one...i have to go back to ambala on my bike from chandigarh.

for your information......"anhoni hone se pehle dastak deti hai....samjhdar wohi jo pehchan jaye....."

Now i m at home and reached around 6:30 am. but was very tired so sleep and wale up at 1:00 PM, so u wanted to know about my last hurdle,

actually without this , the day coudn't be memorable, actally from darbassi onwards i got some...NIND ke JHONKE......i was just....stunn.and just stop my bike and think "Ravi be careful dont sleep, jus 40 min and ur at home"....again i countinue...and now i reahed GOLDEN PUBLIC SCHOOL and again "a shot"....oh my god....now i decided to sing songs loudly , very loudly. I dont know when i stop singing, when my eyes close......and jese hi i opened my eyes i was driving very close to the footpath..and then i lost my balance and..............FARR...FATAK...Farrr....BHADOOM .........BHADAM.........THAK............DHOOM..

don worry koi bomb ni blasthoa, i fall down with my bike...but i thank god ki main kisi car ya bus main ni baja...warna you couldn't have this blog to read.....:D  :D

i saw myself , i was looking fine, my sirt and pent were painted with dust.....and today i realize the importance of "HELMET" , if i didnt wear that , you can easily do "Phd on my head".....there were hard scractes on my helmet , then i look at my bike front breaks were gone but back one working, foot rest bend, mudgaurd gone, and left indicator gone.....but my caliber shows its caliber and start in half kick and then I reached to a PIR-called -MAMA BHANJA PIIR...i washed my face clean my cloths, and then i start feeling mujhe chot lagia hia ... it was paining my shoulder, my left leg, my neck everything is paining, but no bleeding there, that was the best part. I reached home an make an excuse , if i told them truth they will get very tense, and worried. so i keep it to me and fata fat go for sleep. 

yes its paining but i cant do anything.......so, i don know what you are feeling, but i enjoyed it,....so i m sleeping again..:D

ravi kumar dhawan loggin out..

and

keep reading and comment to kar diya karo yar........    :) 

Classifications

hey Folks wazzup?

I know you all are well and I will not pray to God for keeping you all well please do it yourself, cuz GOD is not listening to me from a long ago ....so take care of yourself...don't mind 

So, we all know that Health is Wealth but i just wanna say that health with out wealth is of no use..cauz without wealth its just like N96 with 0.0 Rs balance, and an Engineer with a BPO job------:(..no doubt he is earning but he is not at all happy ...and cannot do any thing.......

So guys today i wanna share with you some points and i will wait for your reviews too, the points are like when a person is expecting some thing in his life, it could be anything , it could be a person or i must say a special person who will take care of him, who can understand what you are feeling, who can tell you what is wrong or right, who will be there in any situation without caring of the people around you , then y could he didn't get that or why couldn't he express his feelings in front of anyone or directly in front of that person..WHY? and secondly, when you are working really hard for something and giving your 100 percent in your work than y others cant see that. Why he did he get nothing and other everything,,, Don't worry guys i m not saying all this cuz i m depressed m just sharing my views.

     Interested can continue and others........i will Shurly wont mind.......:D

As per my knowledge or i must say someone told me that there are two kind of person one who make compromises and adjust with everything happening to them and second who change the system, but its very difficult, only few of them will survive rest were devoured by the System. 

But for the type of person i m talking about in contradicting both type of people....Lets start Proving......don't worry I m an Engineer....not completely but jaldi ho jaunga that's for sure......and we all know an engineer can prove anything...

so first talk about type one.....he can not express his feelings to that person whom he wanted to become his special one or he can not request for a job .....so this contradict the first type..

now move to second type.....he can not hold the neck of the person and force  to become his special one nor he can force the company to hire him.....so he is not suitable to the type two...so this man contradicting both type...and HENCE PROVE......:D...


                          so Don't mess with an Engineer.....:P

but wait wit wait what we actually wanna prove..... Is he is not a man?, is that what we actually want to prove?... no , not at all, according to me that person is the real man, who is making himself deserving so that he don't have to wait for the company or to say anybody to become his special one rather,,company call him to work with them and that person comes to him to ask him become his life partner...

I know this all will take some time for execute...but this will have to be done......and that's for sure...........

enjoy blogging and give your reviews...................

BY PASS........

hey friends, 
hope you like my previous blogs......do follow and comment on them....
 today this blog is just a past memory roaming in my mind, this was the incident when i first travel alone from ambala to Karnal, its very funny,,,,aaj bhi jab wo din yad ata hai main hanse bina ni reh pata.....hope you enjoy it..

I was in class 11 and it was friday and i was going to panipat for a marrige of  my cousine, but in between the way i have meet my brother who is in karnal. Everybody from my home reached panipat two days before, becuse i have to attend school thats why i have to stay at home, and now i have to travell alone. I was giving pressure on alone travelling because it was first time when i was going somewhere withput anybody.
i was told that you have to take bus from ambala to pipli , and from here  a bus to karnal. Pipli is a place from where i found the bus for karnal, becuse direct bus for karnal was not there,
i took haryana roadways bus at 5:00 pm on friday, from ambala busstand, and reserve a window seat, i was very excited becuse i m travelling alone and secondly got a window seat, :D
after 45 min i reached pipli, now i have to take bus for karnal, i didnt have anything when i came home after school, so  i was hungry then i decided to take some coldrink and chips, and i spent 20 min in finishing them.  than i decided to move on to my second GOAL,so  here is the first bus came for karnal , but conductor was shoouting....BY PASS..BY PASS......i think , soem pass is required for travelling in that bus, i leave that bus, after 10 min another bus came agein conductor was shoouting BY PASS BY PASS.....i leave it too...
its strange...i think in my mind, no bus without pass, two more buses will gone with same comment......than after waiting there for more than half an hour i asked someone .....uncle bina pass wali bus kahan se milegi karnal ke liye.....
:D.....uncle to me----beta kisi main b chad jao wo aapko karnal outer par utar de gi....uncle but ye to by pass by pass bol rahi hai .... han beta wo city ke andar ni jaigi bahar bahr se chali jaigi....so aap kisi main b chle jao.. pahunch jaoge.......ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha .......
i laughed alot on myself,,than i immediatly took the very first bus coem for karnal, and reached there, i was very happy that finally i got the bus and also i was laughing on my self........than after half an hour i reached karnal and meet my brother........

this was funniest movment of my life.........:D

First Drink

Since a very long time I was planning to get fully DRUNK.... and catch my reaction after that in camera... But cant make it. But till today, "25 may 2011", we (me and my two school time friends and MOST Important...my BIKE)  decided to go for "TAFRI".
"Aaj mausam bada acha tha...BARISH ne sari garmi dur kar di.

When we off for market, there was no Rain, but slowly, "TIP TIP BARSA PANI...aur PANI NE AAG LAGAI, and we all were enjoying it by singing songs, It was amazing.

Now we reached to the very well known place called....THEKA(WHERE PEOPLE FOUND THERE PRE-SOLTION OF PROBLEM AND ENJOYMENT---:D :D)  or TEVEREN.

We are three, Sunny, Jagtar, and Me(Ravi). SUNNY refused to drink. I don't know why, but this happens first time :D. "OTHERWISE WE USE TO TELL HIM, BHAI BAS KAR..  :p".

But no problem, Jagtar and me decided to buy two beer bottles, I have drunk before, but it was just for taste so cant feel that, but today when more than half was over, I start feel something, I can't express, but it was AWESOME and than I think that now, I am gone, than with a perfect timing we heard "a tring sound", actually I receive one Message, and I was smiling when reading that....actually I was just reading that, but smiling, because I was thinking "MUJHE CHAD GAI HAI"...than instantly....Jaggi and sunny..."ladki ka naam kya hai ".....ha ha.

I said comon yar, its not the message, "but mujhe esa lag raha hai ki mujhe thodi thodi chad gai hai".
after a small silence, BIG LAUGH, HA HA HA HA HA, they are laughing at me, but I know I was totally lost. Its strange, I haven't completed one complete bottle and I cant control my self...:D

I was like ....... "Idhar Chala, Main Udhar Chala Jane Kahan Main Kidhar Chal" :D

After that....Jaggi "yar koi na abhi ek or piyenge"....
I thought, "are mujhse ek khatam ni ho rahi dusri to bahut door hai"
just after that......

Two Policemen, came on a bike, and "PATAK PATAK ."

They start beating one man. he was drinking standing outside the Tavern (for your information, its an offence drinking outside Taveren). Don't worry mujhe ni pade and na hi JAGGI aur SUNNY ko. But honestly, "meri sari utar gai" (because we also doing the same thing). I had already completed mine, and Jaggi was about to finish. Than Sunny to Jaggi "ise fenk de", after two sec, Jaggi react, and tabhi
one policeman came and said "SALON YAHAN KYA KAR RHE HO". We all with Innocent face "WAIT KAR RAHE THE JI DOST KA..BAS JA RAHE HAIN, "
Policeman to us, "Sallon jao yahan se, yahan ni khade hona, ye waiting Room hai".
second policeman has caught one person, and start beating him. while that person was beaten by policeman, he way drinking side by side,  but he didn't leave that bottle. :D 
"wah bhai kamal hai"

I immediately started my BIKE, and we move from there, without reacting at that situation. I was driving, than Sunny and Jagtar cover the seat on my bike with there "TASHRIF".
I forgot that I was drunk, and as soon I realise that, I immediately stop my bike ask sunny to drive it......
BUT JAHAN HUM RUKE WAHAN BAHUT HANSE.......

Its 11:04 PM ..and I just reached home, and went to my room, without facing anybody at home.

Mom asked me, "Ravi, Khana khana hai"......
I sincerely refused. and said, "chiken kha kar aya hun"  just this. 
Because I was afraid for the smell. I was moving towards my room, but I was not walking properly, because of that BEER  ha ha.
Suddenly Mom said, "BAS KAA KE AYA HAI YA KUCH OR BHI KIA HAI .

I was just ."anadr se awaz aai beta gaya tu................

But when I saw her, she was laughing, I said confidently, "han peg laga kar aya hun". and went to my room. and open my laptop.

bach gaya ..aaj to .

BUT Honestly SAYING..I enjoyed every single second, of these four hours.....FIRST TIME PEE AUR THODA SA "TUNN" BHI HO GAYA .....ABHI BHI THODA FEEL HO RAHA HAI ....BUT ACHA LAGA RAHA AHI .
going for sleep.......:D   

signing off............GOOD NIGHT.